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You Stepped In. Now You’re Buried.

  • Lauren Zaslansky Conner
  • Aug 26, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: Dec 9, 2025

Understanding the Weight of Leadership


You bought the business. You inherited it. You finally took the top seat. Now, the weight of everything is on your shoulders.


✔ Sales are steady.

✔ The brand has equity.

✔ The product works.


But behind the scenes, things are different.


  • You’re involved in every pricing conversation, hiring decision, and operations meeting.

  • Your team is stalled, waiting on your green light.

  • Agencies are showing you dashboards, but not direction. Do you even understand the data?

  • Systems are scattered and disorganized.

  • The strategic work? It keeps falling to the bottom of your list.


When I meet owners at this stage, I notice a common theme: the business is running through them, not around them.


The Pressure of Decision-Making


It can feel overwhelming. Every decision seems to rest on your shoulders. You might think, “If I step back, will everything fall apart?” This is a common fear among business leaders.


You are not alone in feeling this way. Many leaders experience this pressure. The constant demands can lead to burnout. You may find yourself questioning your choices and capabilities.


Finding Balance


To regain control, it’s essential to find balance. Here are some strategies to help you manage the weight of leadership:


  1. Delegate Responsibilities

    Empower your team to take ownership of their roles. Trust them to make decisions. This will free up your time for strategic thinking.


  2. Streamline Communication

    Establish clear channels for communication. This will reduce confusion and ensure everyone is on the same page.


  3. Set Clear Goals

    Define your objectives. This will help you prioritize tasks and focus on what truly matters.


  4. Invest in Training

    Equip your team with the skills they need. This will boost their confidence and effectiveness.


  5. Utilize Technology

    Implement systems that can help organize your operations. This will reduce the chaos and improve efficiency.


The Importance of Strategic Work


Strategic work is crucial for long-term success. However, it often gets pushed aside in favor of day-to-day tasks.


To prioritize strategic work, consider these steps:


  • Schedule Time for Strategy

    Block out time in your calendar specifically for strategic planning. Treat it as a non-negotiable appointment.


  • Involve Your Team

    Engage your team in strategic discussions. Their insights can provide valuable perspectives.


  • Review and Adjust Regularly

    Regularly assess your strategies. Be willing to adjust based on what is or isn’t working.


Conclusion


If it feels like you can’t step back without the whole thing slowing down, you’re not imagining it. The pressure of leadership can be daunting, but it doesn’t have to be.


By implementing these strategies, you can regain control and lead your business more effectively.


Let’s chat.


 
 
 

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